Demon of Worry


The Second Demon Separating you from Love

Demon of Worry

Demon of Worry


Do you worry daily?  

Worry is an illusion aging you and causing sorrow and pain. What will help you take worry and transform it into Wonderful?

“Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow.  It empties today of its strengths” ~ Corrie Ten Boom

Worry is by far the greatest catalyst to stress. You might feel it is fear. Fear happens far less than worry. Worry is consistent and plays a bigger part in your health and well-being because it is repetitive and non-productive.


How many of these worry’s do you have? Comment below and let me know.


  • Worry about finances
  • Worry about whether you have made the right choice
  • Worry about your children
  • Worry about your health
  • Worry about your future
  • Worry about the government
  • Worry about your job
  • Worry about finding a soul partner


  • Worry about how you look
  • Worry about ageing
  • Worry about wrinkles
  • Worry about what others think
  • Worry about your spouse being honest and true
  • Worry about the foods you eat
  • Worry about getting sick or a disease….
  • Worry about life and death


This list can go on… Did you know worry is what ages you and depletes your immune system? It causes a great deal of your pain and suffering.

Here are the words that support “Worry” – fret, be concerned, be anxious, agonize, over think, brood, panic, lose sleep, get worked up, get stressed, get in a state, stew, torment oneself, anxiety, perturbation, distress, concern, uneasiness, unease, disquiet, fretfulness, restlessness, nervousness, nerves, agitation, edginess, tension, stress; apprehension, fear, dread, trepidation, misgiving, angst;

Wow, all these words are so painful! Did you know words, written or spoken, carry a frequency affecting the frequency of your heart beat, the signature sound of you?


What is worry anyways?  And why do we worry?

Worry is a problem stemming from the brains anxiety over solving or figuring out how to manage the challenges it perceives or how to control life.

These challenges, most of the time are non existent until you decide to create them. Your challenges can be created by the very thought of something being wrong, unknown, unlikable, unlovable, or just perceived as a potential problem.

Those potential problems are the things that you cannot control.  This can feel uncomfortable to many who limit themselves to life being only one way and not being open to the infinite possibilities in collaborating with life.  It’s time to command from your heart and stop controlling from your head.  Get out of your head and into your heart!

“Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth.” ~ John F. Kennedy

At one time in history, life was a partnership model within the tribe, clan, or community and then came the dominators. Once the dominator model came into affect people were afraid to be themselves. If they did not agree or follow the dominator rules they were killed, maimed, or cast out of the community for not conforming to the dominating model. People could not admit to their mistakes or they would suffer the consequences rather than grow from them.This has lead to a society that has separated itself from love, the core of who you are!

Love commands the Universe, it does not control. Man resorts to control only when love is missing! Control is a competition for time and timing. It can be very exhausting. Worry is very exhausting because worry is about feeling out of control or constantly trying to control life. You can not control life! However, you can command from your heart.

“Love is the source of all miracle–it invokes their presence.” ~ Love Without End, Jesus Speaks

When the partnership model was the way of life, everyone accepted each other just the way the are.  They felt that one life could contribute to another and make life easier because they worked together.  The partnership model looked to one another to find their commonalities, not their differences.  The quality of life for all was more assured by the survival of each person, and the quality of life for each person was more assured by the survival of the whole.

The dominator model was an ego model, self centered, and only thinking of oneself.  Ego means “the center”, self centered.  The dominator model was heartless and therefore separated from love.  The dominators do not recognize themselves as part of the whole.  This dominator model is orientated in the brain and only works from trying to control its environment which can never be done leaving it worrying about how it is going to control the next moment.

If you could control every moment would you worry?Worry creates problems

The eight demons that separate you from love have been perpetuated because of the dominating model wanting to control others and to make others conform to their heartless way of life.

The demon of worry takes over your brain and limits you to perceiving life as hard, painful and full of suffering. That suffering will continue until you realize who you are and how valuable you are to this world as YOU, the love that you are.

Controlling life contracts life and shuts down the life source energy within yourself and those around you. Life becomes a struggle and your quality of life suffers. If you could control life you would be able to relax your body in a moments notice. Can you do that? Control depletes you and your heart becomes a heart of stone, a disease heart.

“Problems of the world cannot possibly be solved by skeptics or cynics whose horizons are limited by the obvious realities.  We need men who can dream of things that never were.” ~ John F. Kennedy  


You are not alone in your worries…

Check out the most recent Gallop Poll on the Worries of Americans in March of 2014  

Gallop Poll Worries of 2014

The Gallup Poll shows that Americans are more worried about financial issues than their health.  That is obvious because worrying destroys your health. What can you do about all this worry and learn how to transform it into wonderful?

Learn something new today and everyday, you will begin to grow younger and wiser with age!  First know thyS.E.L.F is the beginning of trusting yourself and commanding your life from your heart. When you command from your heart you free yourself from the worries of life.

Commanding from your heart means being unconditional in your love.  Authentic love sets you free to be who you are and allows others to do the same.  Unconditional love keeps your heart healthy and your love ones safe. When you learn more about love, you learn patience and a peace becomes your reality.

I know all about worry and how not to identify with it.  When worry becomes your sorrow, your hardship, your pain, thank it for making you aware of what you would rather not experience, feel, or have. Always ask yourself what you would rather have instead.  I know I have been their and the reason I am here today is I learned how to transform worry into wonderful and you can too!  Learn more about love…a story of a grateful heart.

You feel before you think.  Everything begins in the heart.  Charlie Chaplin said, “Sometimes we think to much and feel too little.”  I shared with you earlier in this article how life changed from a partnership model of community to a dominator model of prison.  Life changed because we stopped feeling.  No feeling, No healing!

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes?  Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.  Are you not much more valuable than they?  Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?” ~ Matthew 6:25-27


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Get Comfy on the “Love Seat” and let’s have a heart to heart chat every Wednesday 12:00pm MDT.  Every week we will be taking a wilderness adventure into your heart discovering YOU! When you sign up you receive the link to the replays of our heart to heart chats.  Worry and Doubt are already available and you find resources and information to transform worry into wonderful as well as Doubt into Blessings.  Cast out the Demon of Doubt and bring on the blessings.

In each one of the “Love Seat” replays you will receive more knowledge and understanding of why each one of these demons can be transformed into a message of love.

The next demon that separates you from love is “Shame”.  Get Comfy on the “Love Seat” and reunite with your heart! Shame depletes our very being. How can shame be a catalyst to super confidence?

“Love Seat” heart to heart chats:

Get Comfy in the “Love Seat”. Open your heart today… Take a wilderness adventure into your heart and discover YOU, Your S.E.L.F., Source Energy Love Frequency. Harmonize your life with love and Be the Life YOU Love today!

The “Love Seat” will begin in lecture mode and then open up to participation from what is desiring to be share from your heart.   My first 2 months of the “Love Seat” will be about the 8 demons that separate you from love and how you can reunite with your heart helping you to be more unconditional with yourself and others.

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Here is what to expect in the next 8 weeks:

1. Doubt – Does doubt limit you to the possibilities? Why is doubt a part of life and how can it be a blessing in disguise?  ***Podcast will be posted soon.  We had a great time on this call however we did have some technical difficulties and the call is being edited.  Check out the article on “The Demon of Doubt”.

2. Worry – Worry is an illusion aging you and causing sorrow and pain. What will help you take worry and transform it into Wonderful?  ***This chat is full of information about how you can transform worry into wonderful and why.  There is some great science and spirituality creating balance and harmony.  Learn about how the breath, dry brushing, and tapping can relieve worry, anxiety, and stress.

3. Shame – Shame depletes our very being. How can shame be a catalyst to super confidence?

4. Guilt – Are you always feeling sorry, finding yourself saying your sorry even when there is nothing to be sorry for? Learn how to transform sorrow, the I’m sorry’s, into loving service.

5. Jealousy – Do you covet what others have? Where can you find your own treasure inside of you so that you know that your contribution to this world is of great value and there is nothing more valuable in this world than YOU?

6. Resentment – Resentment is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die. Remember what you give you get back. Revenge will not restore peace. Can it be forgiveness of another restores the truth of one’s own being and can forgiveness lead to freedom?

7. Fear – Where is fear harmful and helpful? Can you transform fear into faith?

8. Judgment – Does judgment separate you from love and limit you to the infinite possibilities to being the life you love. Learn to judge with kindness to find truth and then you will recognize your compassion!  Judgment is what creates fear!

Get Comfy on the “Love Seat” and Be the Life YOU Love! Come join me in a “Heart to Heart” Chat and let us illuminate the world together!   I will be posting an article to support each weeks subject. That means March 19 I will be starting with “The Demon of Doubt”!

In Loving Service,

Cynthia Gardner O’Neill ~ Illuminator of Love | Illumination through Education | Wellness Provider Trainer & Coaching Services | Loving Consciousness Certified Programs Harmonizing your wellness business with Love, Love transforms consciousness.

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