Freedom to Grow


Mustard Flower of Love

Freedom to Grow Without Attachment

“Plant seeds of love they will bloom and transform life”

The Kingdom of Heaven grows from small beginnings.  As Jesus said, “What is the Kingdom of God like? To what shall I compare it? It is like a grain of mustard seed, which a man took, and put in his own garden. It grew, and became a large tree, and the birds of the sky lodged in its branches.” ~ Luke 13:18-19

The freedom to grow without attachment can be a difficult task.  Many of you will be attached to being acknowledge, validated, praised, appreciated and supported by those around you.  When you feel this is not happening you begin to criticize yourself and feel separated from others or you get angry as well as resentful.  This can take you down a dark road.

What would happen if you acknowledge, validated, and praised yourself for being YOU?

You are exactly where you are supposed to be.  Never give yourself a hard time for being where you are or who you are.  You are perfect, whole, and complete.  We all have to start somewhere just as a small mustard seed grows into a tree where love blossoms and drops its seed to grow again.  

You are making wise choices for your health and well-being when you are validating yourself for doing your best and your best is good enough.  Celebrate that wisdom!  Celebrate that you have the desire to be of loving service and share in the way that only you can.  No one is like you!

Provide yourself with the motivation to prosper through celebrating each step you take to your goals and always remember that change is inevitable.  You may change your mind about a goal and that is perfect.  Flexibility and adaptability are the new stability and pouring love into it will ignite victory in all that you do!  Remember, an attitude and diet full of love is a life full of miracles.

Talk about your hearts desires and about loving consciousness which is why you are here in the first place.  People are struggling and are writing about it in social networks.  Comment with something loving when you feel you can support them with loving service. 

Also, have no attachment to whether someone replies or not or even acknowledges what You have said. This will be the biggest transformation for you because it feels good to be of loving service and know that you have made a difference to enhance someones life.  Do not be attached to whether someone notices or not,  validate yourself. 

When you love yourself you are loving all things because what I see in you, I see in me!  Do not wait for others to acknowledge you before you will begin to do what you are here to be.  Take action for your own happiness and joy.  That is your freedom to grow and create infinite possibilities for yourself.

What helped me with releasing attachment was when a friend told me about a story from the bible.  He paraphrased something that Jesus had said, “If your words fall on deaf ears move on.”  You plant the mustard seed and let it grow in its own time. 

Be the beautiful flower from which that mustard seed falls.  The mustard flower does not show its beauty because someone complimented it or showed it attention, it opened up to express its essence and in return it received or attracted that which it already is;  the birds, the bees, the sunshine, the rain, and even the wind, the winds of change.  You are that beautiful flower seeding the world with your essence that only you can.  Your value and worth is the love that you are!

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In Loving Service,

 Cynthia Gardner O’Neill ~ Illuminator of Love | Illumination through Education | Wellness Provider Trainer & Coaching Services | Loving Consciousness Certified Programs Harmonizing your wellness business with Love, Love transforms consciousness.